Monday, October 08, 2007
Friends
Dear Friends,
We have been meeting less and less often as compared to before. Guess it’s attributed to our different, changing lifestyle. In addition, all of us are now more aware of what we will be facing in the years to come and are probably working hard for the “path” which we hope to take. Change is inevitable. However, the deep friendship and bond I have with each and every one of you is something I hope will never change.
Over the years, as we grow older together, we managed to help each other mature to be the person he is today. Different people play different roles but I believe everyone has played a part to make us become what we are today. With that, I am thankful to you all for helping me to make me who I am. Of course, not everyone is perfect. I believe some of you hate some parts of me but just didn’t say.
Nowadays, we no longer know well what is happening to each and everyone’s life. The less frequent gatherings and the sparse usage of the blog contributed to such an effect. I believe song’s usage of the blog to convey his unfortunate loss of 200 euros probably shows that we still do read the blog but just that we seldom post. Since everyone is getting busier and busier, probably a quick update to the blog would be good so at least we know how the others are doing. I will post here when I have something to update you guys as well. The purpose of this post is also to tell all of you what I feel about you, hopefully it can serve some kind of encouragement. In no order of preference,
Es: You are a person with drive and ambition! I respect your determination and self- discipline. No one in this world can know for sure how well they will do in life or lead a path exactly to what they have planned for. I hope you accept the fact that people do fail at times no matter how much effort is put in. It’s only through failure followed by picking themselves up that they grow a step closer to success. None of us should be afraid of failure as long as we have put in maximum effort! Failure only means we have more to improve on but it does not mean we have not done our part. You are good! Don’t be afraid of failure! You got to have confidence in yourself! I have the confidence in you! All of us have in you! I guess you have to counter whatever problems you are facing now yourself, but of course with all our support. We will support you from a fall and prevent you from sinking further, but you got to stand up yourself, against all possible obstacles! You can do it!
Song: You are a rational and responsible person. Most times, the advices you give are sound. I like to go to you to seek your rational thoughts whenever I am troubled. Although in terms of academic, your results don’t tally with the effort you put in, you refused to give up and will convince yourself you have done the best you could at that time. Your attitude will definitely bring you a long way. A point to note about you from this trip shows that your planning for it is insufficient. Probably it is due to experience and this is definitely going to be a good lesson for you! From how I see you handle arrangements, you tend to be less “Kiasu” of the preparation you make as compared to others. So, next time try to think of as much obstacles as you can before you embark on anything new. Don’t everything also “can one la”. Of course, there will definitely be some situations where you are caught unaware and that’s where your plus point, “Ability to still think calmly what you should do” comes in. Anyway enjoy yourself in Europe with Laura! It’s definitely the right choice!
Black & Ivy: Christianity has brought both of you closer and I believe both of you are leading a life you both want to lead. I am really happy for you both. Good that both of you are already planning into the future…well ahead of most of us. Black, I appreciate the concern and support you give me. You are also very driven and focused towards your goals. I believe in no time, you can meet them and set higher ones. Whether you both choose to be in Singapore or UK, I wish Ivy and you all the best!
Yuyee: You are a very supportive friend. You used to give me the “take it easy” impression whenever you do anything in the past. I feel that these days you are more driven. You know what you want and you are striving for it. You take up more responsibility like organizing many soccer matches for us to have gatherings. Of course, it’s also something you have interest in. I feel however, you tend to mind how others will think or look at you. Yuyee, if people want to laugh at you if you ask a question that sounds stupid to them, just don’t bother. As long as you have prepared your stuff and you are unsure about something, just ask! They can laugh, but ultimately you still benefit since the doubt is clarified. Trust me, you only need to start the ball rolling and this will no longer be an obstacle for you. It’s like how you are forced to make presentations from the start of year 1 but now you are a seasoned speaker.
Seto: Probably the most street-wise person amongst us. You are capable. Educational grades are not really a good justification of capabilities for you since you didn’t have the time to show your maximum potential. Seto, you have a money making business mind. Go all out for it man! Don’t be afraid of failure in business because I believe after every failure you will learn something new which will lead to your success. Good luck! And please, try to quit smoking. It’s bad for your health and very expensive.
Weixin: You are one talented individual! I feel in some ways, you are reserved. Are you trying to be humble? You must go all out to achieve what you want. Do not have doubts in yourself. You must have the confidence! You are like a person filled with substance but very negative about yourself! And please, always think about yourself first b4 u think for others. Of course, you are the best person to decide what is the best way to handle and I respect that.
Sq: You are another damn talented individual. Don’t belittle yourself! You have proven in many ways you are capable. When you articulate your thoughts, there are times when they really impress me. Don’t think that no one is listening to you! I am always listening to the sound and logically views you have, trying to rebut you at times. You are someone with little expectations, leading a happy-go-lucky, very easily contented life. Like everything, it has pros and cons. You will pick yourself up fast when you fail but you will not have very high goals. I hope you will aim really high but still can keep the “always look on the bright side” attitude. I believe in you! One more thing, I believe you will earn lots of money in future but please do some financial planning.
Qin: You give me the impression that you have very big goals in mind but I don’t know what they are. You dare take steps that normal conservative people don’t. For example, you go for minor in entrepreneurship, something which I don’t believe many year 1 eng student will take. You take Arabic language outside which I believe you probably feel its usefulness. In short, I believe you know what you want! The only issue I have is your sleeping habits. Not that it affects me, but I just want you to know that it’s not good for your health in the long term. So please also take care of your health while having big goals.
Terence: Nothing wrong with being the last. Doesn’t mean you are the worst friend! In fact, I admire your way of doing things sometimes. A very confident person with a mind of your own, but be careful it might be taken as arrogant. You are someone who is big-hearted, not minding about the lots of things which you consider them “small”. Capable person whom if you want to do something well, you will show your potential and get it done, like how you managed to excel last semester. You are not a risk averse person, so in future, when you gamble in the market, just make sure you have a “stop” line.
You are all great, loyal friends to me. In the years to come, everyone will be busier with many more things to manage. However, I still have the hope that all of us can still travel together in future! I see immerse potential in each and every one of you! Have faith and confidence in whatever you all do. Even though we might meet much less, you all will always be my best friends. Good luck!
Cheers,
Lam
We have been meeting less and less often as compared to before. Guess it’s attributed to our different, changing lifestyle. In addition, all of us are now more aware of what we will be facing in the years to come and are probably working hard for the “path” which we hope to take. Change is inevitable. However, the deep friendship and bond I have with each and every one of you is something I hope will never change.
Over the years, as we grow older together, we managed to help each other mature to be the person he is today. Different people play different roles but I believe everyone has played a part to make us become what we are today. With that, I am thankful to you all for helping me to make me who I am. Of course, not everyone is perfect. I believe some of you hate some parts of me but just didn’t say.
Nowadays, we no longer know well what is happening to each and everyone’s life. The less frequent gatherings and the sparse usage of the blog contributed to such an effect. I believe song’s usage of the blog to convey his unfortunate loss of 200 euros probably shows that we still do read the blog but just that we seldom post. Since everyone is getting busier and busier, probably a quick update to the blog would be good so at least we know how the others are doing. I will post here when I have something to update you guys as well. The purpose of this post is also to tell all of you what I feel about you, hopefully it can serve some kind of encouragement. In no order of preference,
Es: You are a person with drive and ambition! I respect your determination and self- discipline. No one in this world can know for sure how well they will do in life or lead a path exactly to what they have planned for. I hope you accept the fact that people do fail at times no matter how much effort is put in. It’s only through failure followed by picking themselves up that they grow a step closer to success. None of us should be afraid of failure as long as we have put in maximum effort! Failure only means we have more to improve on but it does not mean we have not done our part. You are good! Don’t be afraid of failure! You got to have confidence in yourself! I have the confidence in you! All of us have in you! I guess you have to counter whatever problems you are facing now yourself, but of course with all our support. We will support you from a fall and prevent you from sinking further, but you got to stand up yourself, against all possible obstacles! You can do it!
Song: You are a rational and responsible person. Most times, the advices you give are sound. I like to go to you to seek your rational thoughts whenever I am troubled. Although in terms of academic, your results don’t tally with the effort you put in, you refused to give up and will convince yourself you have done the best you could at that time. Your attitude will definitely bring you a long way. A point to note about you from this trip shows that your planning for it is insufficient. Probably it is due to experience and this is definitely going to be a good lesson for you! From how I see you handle arrangements, you tend to be less “Kiasu” of the preparation you make as compared to others. So, next time try to think of as much obstacles as you can before you embark on anything new. Don’t everything also “can one la”. Of course, there will definitely be some situations where you are caught unaware and that’s where your plus point, “Ability to still think calmly what you should do” comes in. Anyway enjoy yourself in Europe with Laura! It’s definitely the right choice!
Black & Ivy: Christianity has brought both of you closer and I believe both of you are leading a life you both want to lead. I am really happy for you both. Good that both of you are already planning into the future…well ahead of most of us. Black, I appreciate the concern and support you give me. You are also very driven and focused towards your goals. I believe in no time, you can meet them and set higher ones. Whether you both choose to be in Singapore or UK, I wish Ivy and you all the best!
Yuyee: You are a very supportive friend. You used to give me the “take it easy” impression whenever you do anything in the past. I feel that these days you are more driven. You know what you want and you are striving for it. You take up more responsibility like organizing many soccer matches for us to have gatherings. Of course, it’s also something you have interest in. I feel however, you tend to mind how others will think or look at you. Yuyee, if people want to laugh at you if you ask a question that sounds stupid to them, just don’t bother. As long as you have prepared your stuff and you are unsure about something, just ask! They can laugh, but ultimately you still benefit since the doubt is clarified. Trust me, you only need to start the ball rolling and this will no longer be an obstacle for you. It’s like how you are forced to make presentations from the start of year 1 but now you are a seasoned speaker.
Seto: Probably the most street-wise person amongst us. You are capable. Educational grades are not really a good justification of capabilities for you since you didn’t have the time to show your maximum potential. Seto, you have a money making business mind. Go all out for it man! Don’t be afraid of failure in business because I believe after every failure you will learn something new which will lead to your success. Good luck! And please, try to quit smoking. It’s bad for your health and very expensive.
Weixin: You are one talented individual! I feel in some ways, you are reserved. Are you trying to be humble? You must go all out to achieve what you want. Do not have doubts in yourself. You must have the confidence! You are like a person filled with substance but very negative about yourself! And please, always think about yourself first b4 u think for others. Of course, you are the best person to decide what is the best way to handle and I respect that.
Sq: You are another damn talented individual. Don’t belittle yourself! You have proven in many ways you are capable. When you articulate your thoughts, there are times when they really impress me. Don’t think that no one is listening to you! I am always listening to the sound and logically views you have, trying to rebut you at times. You are someone with little expectations, leading a happy-go-lucky, very easily contented life. Like everything, it has pros and cons. You will pick yourself up fast when you fail but you will not have very high goals. I hope you will aim really high but still can keep the “always look on the bright side” attitude. I believe in you! One more thing, I believe you will earn lots of money in future but please do some financial planning.
Qin: You give me the impression that you have very big goals in mind but I don’t know what they are. You dare take steps that normal conservative people don’t. For example, you go for minor in entrepreneurship, something which I don’t believe many year 1 eng student will take. You take Arabic language outside which I believe you probably feel its usefulness. In short, I believe you know what you want! The only issue I have is your sleeping habits. Not that it affects me, but I just want you to know that it’s not good for your health in the long term. So please also take care of your health while having big goals.
Terence: Nothing wrong with being the last. Doesn’t mean you are the worst friend! In fact, I admire your way of doing things sometimes. A very confident person with a mind of your own, but be careful it might be taken as arrogant. You are someone who is big-hearted, not minding about the lots of things which you consider them “small”. Capable person whom if you want to do something well, you will show your potential and get it done, like how you managed to excel last semester. You are not a risk averse person, so in future, when you gamble in the market, just make sure you have a “stop” line.
You are all great, loyal friends to me. In the years to come, everyone will be busier with many more things to manage. However, I still have the hope that all of us can still travel together in future! I see immerse potential in each and every one of you! Have faith and confidence in whatever you all do. Even though we might meet much less, you all will always be my best friends. Good luck!
Cheers,
Lam
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